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where old men click their teeth and chew on the good old days
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John Quinn | Exploring intense activities to which I have been committed for the long term. | Tony Smyth | The Priory grounds 55 years on. |
Gerard Lenaghan | Abbotsford Revisited 2018 | Gerard Lenaghan | Abbotsford Revisited |
Peter Collyer | Before my memory fades . . . | Maurice Billingsley | A year in Gap |
Mike Mearns | Dryburgh Abbey Hotel | Paul West | Paul West writes to clear his conscience |
Mike Mearns | Food for thought | Patrick Southall | Looking back with gratitude |
Robert Griffin | The skiffle group | Peter Briody | Fr Tolmie's Bonfire Night |
Iain Martin | Ratho | Eugene MacBride | First Impressions |
David Walker | The Choir's trip to Rome | Eugene MacBride | The Ghastly Business of the Nature Club |
Prof McMurray | The memories come flooding back | Robbie Dempsey | The Photograph |
Michael Gallagher | The fire at St Columba's | Eugene MacBride | Remembered with Affection |
Paul West | Mnemonics still working after 50 years | Olivia O'Dolan | Memories of Blacklion |
Mike Mearns | The 3rd declension | Peter 'Prof' McMurray | Exit Stage Left |
Mike Mearns | Bunny McGrath and other stories | Tim Pascall | Fr Bernard Duffy |
John Byrne | Oh yes, I remember it well | John Byrne | Music, Maestro |
Eugene MacBride | Fr Patrick Boyd WF | Mike Mearns | Vince, Pat and Kerry |
Robbie Dempsey | Memorandum to Rev Fr Bernard Duffy | Vincent Celano | Early Memories of Heston Parish |
Paul West | Broadcasting to The World | Robbie Dempsey | Philosophy in Blacklion |
Paul West | After Q.224 I knew I was a gonna . . . | Wim Hofman | My noviciate at Broome Hall 1961-1962 |
Mike Mearns | Bedlam, Movies and Leaving | John Conlon | John remembers his days in Malawi |
Wim Hofman | The lake at Broome Hall | Mike Mearns | Dancin' the night away |
Gerard Lenaghan | The Ghost of Father Icas | Mike Mearns | A Pressing Matter |
Gerard Lenaghan | A Seasonal Reminiscence | Paul West | On a Wing and a Prayer |
Michael Goodstadt | Lasting Impressions | Eric Creaney | MAD Day |
Fr Ben Henze, MAfr | The Laughing Jesus | Fr Geoffrey J Riddle, MAfr | Another Geoffrey's 50 years in Africa |
Michael Mearns | Fr Geoff Riddle | Michael Mearns | It was only an English textbook but . . . . |
Maurice Billingsley | Brown Enamel Teapots | Peter McMurray | The Truth Is Out There |
Richard Collins | A Snapshot of Catholic England in the 1950s | Abbot Cuthbert (Peter) Johnson | Address of Dom Cuthbert Johnson given to the Reunion at park Place May 2012. |
The Photograph
Robbie Dempsey (7th
October 2004) Robbie Dempsey remembers young Andy Murphy ( the nephew of Fr. Andy Murphy). ![]() Hello, sir, how can I help you ? Well, it's like this. I'd like to get this photo enlarged. Enlargements are no problem. We'll have it for you tomorrow. This is the only photo I have of my dear friend, Andy . . . . and, well . . . . he died recently, so I'd like to have a picture . . . . Oh, I'm sorry to hear that, I'm sure. Let's have a look. Enlargements are no problem. But, this photograph has about two dozen kids on it ! Yeah, that's Andy, there. And, I thought you could just crop out a smaller piece there, around the middle, and enlarge it. Well, we'll do the best we can. It'll take a day or two. Now, there's a few little things on the photo. It's a black and white photo, and I'm wondering if you could colour it ? Hmmm. No problem ! We'll colour it in and brighten it up. That'll take about three days. Great stuff ! But. 'Em, as you can see, this was taken at a school, and I'm not in this one. I was standing behind the guy with the camera. Is that so ? And, so I was wondering if you could sort of cut out around that lad, him there, you see Andy has his arm on his shoulder. And then put me in instead ? Here's a picture of me. Well, that might be bit difficult. You could always just cut it. No . . . . Andy would only have one arm, then. Hmmm. We'll get the artist to crop out that guy so. And you on this one. Good ! Let me see, now, for a second. You want the photo enlarged, crop out around Andy, change the black and white to colour, remove that other guy, and put you in. That could take three weeks. Yes. Now, I'm sorry to bother you. There's something else. Do you see those trousers ? Well, Andy absolutely hated those short trousers. We all did. Maybe you could put us in long trousers ? The long grey flannels will do. Well, we could try that. Is there anything else ? Now, there's just one thing. Do you see those old grey shirts ? Andy has a smart white one. Well, we just hated those grey shirts. They were made of old ships' sails and you could pick potatoes and break stones while wearing one of those shirts. The same shirt would last you for two years. Is there anything you could do about those ? Now, hold on a second. It'll be difficult to change the shirts. What we'll do is: we'll get the artist to paint in a few flowers on the shirts. Ok ? Very good. That's a great idea. Now, there's one last thing. Do you see that fire escape ? We weren't allowed anywhere near that fire escape. You'd be in big trouble for playing around on that. It's a good job there wasn't a fire ! So, listen, instead of a fire escape could you place, say a nice motorbike, in the front there ? I suppose we could. That's marvellous ! Right so. Let's run over this again. You want the photo enlarged, crop out around Andy, change the black and white to colour, remove that other guy, and put you in, all with the long trousers, and the flowery shirts, and put in a Harley-Davidson. Ok, we'll have a go at this. This'll take about three months ! Thanks very much. That's all right. Grand. Now, just for the artist. I'll have to indicate which kid is Andy. But, sure he'll see that when he takes his trousers off. Didn't his poor mother have to spend hours sewing his name onto all his clothes ! With acknowledgments from R.Dempsey to the Grace. ![]() |
Rembered
with affection Eugene MacBride (December
2004) : |
Blacklion
Days
Olivia O'Dolan (19th December 2004) Fr Packy Haritty is conected to my family through my late mother and his late mother. They were second cousins as was Bud and Caith's mother in Blacklion. I put a message on the Pelican Message Board recently, regarding Fr Packy visiting us here in October. He is now based in Preston where he was (at that time) looking after older retired missionaries and helping out in local parishes. I live with my sister Mairead and my brother Charlie. Eugene and Zelda called to see us in July after Cemetery Sunday where there was the blessing of the graves at Killinagh Blacklion, where the late Peter McKenzie is buried. I remember that day well in mid summer 1963. We had a young nephew drowned in same lake in Jan 1970. He, Myles and an older sister Aine and younger brother John were playing at the lake beside their home near Belcoo. Myles, aged seven years, went on to the ice not knowing that it was thin, he fell into a hole in the ice. Fr Lewis, Fr K.O'Mahoney and Bro Paddy were very good to my brother and his wife and family around that time and for a long time after that, calling down to visit the family at Rusheen from St. Augustine's Blacklion when they were free. . . . . Mairead who was in Legion of Mary in our parish would have some of the students from St Augustine's help to entertain at the old peoples homes in Enniskillen in mid 1960s. I remember the three boys who called themselves '' The Slope John B Trio'' They sung lots of Clancy Brothers songs. One was named Michael O'Challaghan from Co Cork. Mairead who helped organise these small concerts recalls that she had to have the boys back in St Augustine's before 9 pm as Fr Maguire, the Rector, was very strict on their being back on time. She always adhered to this. The late Fr John Havlin who was CC Belcoo in late 1960s, had a great interest in drama. He brought some of the students into plays. One young man I recall played the part of Curly in ''The Country Boy''. The boys also came to Belcoo P. School to help with drama, singing and music. The pantomime at St Augustine's was a wonderfull ocassion for the children of Blacklion and Belcoo in 1960s/70s. Mairead also recalls that the students did voluntary work at Blacklion Golf Club for Fr C. O'Docherty, helping to clear the fairways and other general tasks around the course, such as tree planting. The trees were known to the golfers for a long time as '' Fr O'Docherty's trees''. My older brother, Malachy, was here this morning and I asked him if he had any more memories, so he recalled that some of the carpentry materials like saws and planing machines were brought over from a house which the White Fathers had in Southampton, England, and were stored at his house in Rusheen then taken over to Loughan by boat. Then he recalled attending a boat building class in The Rainbow Ballroom at Gleanfrane with Bro Paddy and other local men from the area. Michael Shannley, a teacher from Kiltyclogher Technical School, was their instructor. The overall contractors for the building of the college were Murphys from Dublin. Hugh Terence Nolan from Toam Blacklion was sub-contracted to put down the concrete floors in the college, then a group of contractors from Dublin put down trazzio on top of the concreate. We remember there were a few romances between the local Blacklion / Belcoo / Enniskillen girls and the ''trazzio men'' as they were known locally. We were visiting with Bud Greene today, who says herself that the students looked on her as a second mother. Bud recalls when Fr O'Dowd was transfered from Doobally near Dowra to Teemore near Derrylin in the 1960s the students helped him move into the new house at Teemore. They had a half day on Thursdays and would help out in any local parish if needed. Bud also recalls that the boys did not go home for Christmas but I think they went home at New Year. When they came to the village they always wore black coats and hats, as Fr Maguire was very strict about that. God bless Olivia O'Dolan in Belcoo. |
Exit Stage
Left
Peter 'Prof' McMurray (12th February 2005) I was just reading some of the reminiscences about school plays. Does anyone remember the magnificent public performance that we put on for the people of St. Boswells? It was in the now vanished hall at the end of Pasha Peakes road now there is a chap. How many knew that he was a hero of the Palestinian campaign, up there with Lawrence of Arabia? Father Proulx produced a melodrama of significance adorned by Tony McCaffrey as my wife apparently though a head shorter than him I had a voice that carried very useful later on when driving Tourist coaches in pre-microphone days. The piece-de-resistance however was undoubtedly Corky Corcoran hairdresser to the stars and Elvis fan. He managed to combine the most brilliant entrance and exit ever. As Caffo and I intoned at centre stage he entered stage right and promptly trod on a piece of stage that wasn't there, exiting dramatically through the curtain with a significant thud. As for The Priory light dimmer - the entire 240 volt system led through two bare wires on six inch nails dipped into a jug of water and raised or lowered appropriately. Occ health and Safety would love that. |
Bunny McGrath
and other stories
Mike Mearns (25th February 2005) I was looking at a website recently, the focus of which was all the old BBC radio programmes* of the forties, fifties and sixties, and came across the Mrs Dales Diary entry. I realized that there was a Priory connection. I wonder if anybody remembers Bunny McGrath and her mother, from Bishop's Waltham, attending mass in the chapel. Well, Bunny played a character on the show in the late fifties. On one occasion in 1959, Nicky Kendellen, Charlie Bingham and I were detailed off to the McGrath home in order to do some work in the garden. Having completed the task, we were invited to stay for tea and enjoyed sandwiches, cakes, cups of tea and the inside story on " Im worried about Jim". Quite a genteel change from the rough and tumble of tea in the refectory!
Which leads me to the memory of when freshly baked loaves arrived just before teatime and nearly a whole three day supply of the staff of life went in one meal. I think we were eating it " raw" after the portions of butter and jam ran out. This event lead to the appearance of of thinly sliced bread in waxy wrappers. The slices were such that Terry Petits usual request for bread was: "Sling me a couple of boards, please". The wax bread wrappers lead to a whole new art form, though. It was discovered quite early on that if the wrapper was laid waxy side down on the white american cloth table coverings, and a hot teapot applied to it voila the picture was permanently transferred. One table was artfully decorated with garlands and wheatsheafs running from the corners to the centre, where the word "BREAD" appeared several times. Lastly, I recalled doing the washing up and setting the tables after a meal. I thought about the custom of always ensuring that a certain father always received one of the dinner plates that had a large "V" on the rim. The delicious thought was that if he twigged it was impossible for him to say anything about it, of course. A small gesture of defiance by those subject to Authority. |
Fond
Memories of Fr Duffy by
Tim Pascall (22nd August 2005) Fr Duffy was Novice Master at Broome Hall when I was there in the mid-sixties.He was quite a characterand to illustrate this I'd like to quote some examples that typify this kind man and his lovely dry sense of humour. He told us quite early on that : " Every now and then we Fathers invite you into our lounge to watch TV. You are very welcome. We love to see you there. We want you to be infor med. So please do come in. Sit down. Make yourselves comfortableand SHUT UP !" as he slammed his fist on the table! In the middle of the 30-day retreat after a heavy night-time storm he made the following observation : " You are all, of course, keeping faithfully to the Rule of Silence. So how is it that within half an hour of getting up, every single one of you had been down to the bottom of the grounds to see the fallen tree? Stange how news can spread when no-one's saying a word ! " And the day before the General Election (which also took place during the 30 day retreat) he pronounced : " Some of you can votethose of you who are old enough and British. Of course you can go and vote. You must go and vote. It's your duty to go and vote. So go up to Coldharbour village, cast your vote and VOTE LABOUR ! " He also threatened to expel two of the Dutch students who had spent hours until quite late in the evening producing some document that was needed the next day, and so felt entitled to a reward of a quick little smoke. Fr. Duffy had a keen nose and smelt the smoke coming out from under the door. He was furious, but happily was prevailed upon not to carry out his threat, since both students are still with the White Fathers. (No names and no packdrill, therefore). And finally, when Fr. Duffy was appointed as Provincial at Totteridge he was rather concerned about the tension that had built up between Totteridge and the Provincial House. To calm the waters he suggested that people from both places should go out to dinner together. Totteridge was to arrange everything. So a restaurant was booked in Barnet. When they arrived at the venue, they heard that ties were required. This was one thing Fr Duffy had never worn in his life (or so he claimed). The restaurant insisted, and even offered to supply him with one. " I've never worn a tie in my life and I'm not going to wear one tonight just for you " was the answerwhich is just the reaction that anyone who knew him would have expected. So they all walked off in a huff, and relations between Totteridge and the Provincial House took a little while longer to be repaired! |
Music,
maestro by John Byrne
(24th August 2005)
Once in a while, Fr Duffy permitted music to be played in the refectory at supper, instead of the more traditional reading. The renowned Joe McIntyre was noted as a musuc 'guru' and he decided to play some guitar music. All was going very well, classical pieces etc, then the music became more modern, and a piece by Charlie Parker commenced. Fr Duffy (Hank as we called him) became 'agitated' and loudly said 'Deo Gratias' - that was the end of the music while you eat. |
Fr
Pat Boyd by Eugene MacBride
(27th October 2005)
I first met Fr Pat Boyd on 8 March 1950 at St Columba's. The college was en fete in choro et refectorio to celebrate the 25th anniversary of his ordination to the priesthood of Father Walsh and his 50th of Father Bouniol. It was my first day with the White Fathers. My aunt who had brought me down from Glasgow had been spirited away and I think it was Pat took me upstairs to the big dormitory to show me my bed and my locker. He told me 9 March would be a holiday. I became the only one in the know, I think, but when Jimmy Johnston asked who had told me, I said, "The priest with the big nose." Johnston let out a hoot: "Hawkeye!" The odd thing is that after St Boswell's, I never heard Pat referred to again in terms of his rather prominent nose. On the morning of 10 March, Walter Perry invited me to come down and see his rabbit snares. As a result, we were late getting into Latin class and Pat tore Waller off a strip against a background of the beautiful Eildon Hills. The class had been chanting Amabam, amabas, amabat as we walked in, the first Latin I had ever heard bar the noun 'stella'. Pat took me as a Latin extravagant and taught me in his windowless room. He also taught French and put it about that Scots boys would find French easier than the English or Irish because of the similarity of pronunciation, eg "ferme" and "ferm" ! One day a rather daft boy J.P. asked a very intelligent question: "How is it possible to go to a foreign country (eg in Africa) and understand what they are saying?" Pat understood the query as a very stupid one from a very stupid boy but I for one could see what J.P. was getting at. Pat blew-up and told him to shut up and stop being so silly. Pat was in charge of the schola and used to take practice during manual work. Ged Wynne was our organist. I had been made one of the sacristans and used to fake--- beg Denis Shields behind Pat's back to swap his Liber for my sweeping brush and change places with me. Denis was always eager but of course he did not dare. Pat took a vivid interest in all things Pelican from our first reunion at Rutherglen in October 1992 right through to Dryburgh Abbey ten years later. He was one of those priests who tried to make everyone feel at home especially the women. He was always on the look-out for ladies to read during Mass. I liked Pat very much and was sorry to hear of his death on 27th September 2005. I was in France at the time and did not learn of his death until mid-October. Requiescat. Eugene |
Vince,
Pat and Kerry by Mike
Mearns (18th November 2005)
The sad news of the death of Vince Bailey prompted me to write today. Vince was the Dean of students when I began my first year of philosphy at Blacklion. He had taken his MA and taught for a while before joining up. Always cheerful and willing to help others. I took over from him as MC late in my first year and appreciated his help and encouragement. He acquired the nickname of " Bedrock" as a result of his overseeing the the landscaping of the Grotto, where the stream flowed past the statue of the Virgin. Manys a boulder have I rolled, and wheelbarrow load of soil pushed, alongside Vince. I recall a little talk he gave one Sunday evening in the rec' room. Drawing on his pre-philosophy studies, he entertained us with a recounting of some of the Norse and Icelandic myths. He also inspired me to take up rowing when I left the WFs. He had his blue from Glasgow University and spoke about rowing with such enthusiasm that I had to give it a try when the opportunity arose. So thanks, Vince, for all the times I have slogged up and down the Thames, pulling on an oar in the number five seat of a Kensington Rowing Club eight! Another memory was prompted by looking at the 32 finalists for the 2006 World Cup in Germany. Seeing the names of qualifying countries like Australia, Angola and Trinidad and Tobago reminded me of the early Summer of 1957. Pat Burns and I decided that we would hold a world cup competition. I drew up a list of 64 countries, randomly listed them in pairs and so we began to play the 63 games necessary to get the champion. We had set up a small field on the corner of the football pitch closest to the farm. The goals were two benches laid on their sides presenting a target about six feet long and a foot high. We played 5 minute halves using a tennis ball. As we only played during the evening recreation, it took a long time to get to the final. I cannot remember which country finally triumphed but I do recall it was an obscure football nation. Nowadays the obscure teams would be the Cook Islands or St Kitts and Nevis or some such. Who knows when one of them might be finalists. With Wigan second in the Premiership, anything can happen. Seeing Kerry Bagshaw's new email address made me rub my left eyebrow and wince. It is still tender from the cricket season of 1959. I was batting for the sixth form against the fourth, when one of Kerry's demon fast balls bounced up and caught me and smashed my specs. I was carted off down to the village to get stitched up and never picked up a cricket bat again. (Yes, I've never understood why you have to play cricket with something as lethal as a stoneEd.) |
Memorandum
to Rev Fr Duffy, Superior a priori, 1964 |
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Broadcasting
to The World by Paul
West (17th March 2006)
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Philosophy in Blacklion
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